How sexual trauma affects our health, sexuality and relationships

There are so many women out there who struggle with their health, their finances, their sexuality and with the relationship to their own bodies. 

And more often than not, they believe there is no interconnection between, let’s say, chronic lower back pain and emotional eating. Or an inability to make money and getting triggered during sex.

Yet, if we struggle to understand the impact of unhealed sexual trauma on multiple areas of our lives, then instead of true healing, our lives become just about managing the external symptoms.

This means we waste so much time, energy and financial resources just chasing some idea of having better lives — while the BETTER LIFE is constantly running away from us.

In this week’s vlog, I want to help you truly understand the relationship between:  

#1 SEXUALITY – You might be in a loving relationship, BUT you are not having sex. It’s either your partner who’s refusing you, or you’re refusing him, because you feel disgusted by sex or ashamed of your body. Another thing that you might be experiencing is that sex feels boring, uninteresting, or plain ehhh. You’ve lost all sensations. Your partner doesn’t turn you on. Sexual pleasure feels like an island that’s 10,000 miles away.

#2 As a result, you might feel VERY DISTANT from your partner. Why? Because there’s part of your soul that’s not being met and loved as a result of ‘broken’ or ‘non-existent’ sexuality. Or if you are single, you feel distant from yourself and your sexuality, because there is JUST NO ONE to fill your cup and make you feel like WOOOOH.

#3 You probably don’t feel safe in your body. You might be looking for safety outside yourself and are going through life feeling terrified. You spend too much time in your head, and have a really hard time feeling and connecting with your body.

#4 On a physical level – You might be struggling with chronic lower back pain, hip or sacro-illiac joint pain. In spite of a good and clean diet, you might be constantly having indigestion, and struggle with bloating. Your menstruation might be very, very painful each month.

Let me help you understand how healing sexual trauma is the doorway toward living an extraordinary life.


P.S. Starting next week, Tues the 4th Dec, I am running a FREE TRAUMA BREAKTHROUGH CHALLENGE {valued at €497}.

Spend 3 days with me, for free, in an exclusive Facebook Group to learn:  

  • How to recognize patterns of trauma and emotional pain inside your nervous system
  • How to feel safe and confident in your own skin
  • The value of incorporating your body into the healing process
  • How to say YES to more sexual pleasure and greater intimacy

 

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